Sunday, September 30, 2007

Another week, another update

Hello!  It feels like it's been awhile since I posted an update, but things around here have been very busy, which I'm beginning to learn is the constant state of being around here.  I'm still loving the work that I do, but also still missing home a lot.  That's the price you pay for having amazing family and friends, I guess!  But every day gets a little easier, and I'm truly enjoying the time I spend in the nursery.  We got a new baby, so we're up to 37.  We've reached our full capacity, so we'll have to wait until one or more of the babies get adopted before we're able to accept any more.  It's amazing to walk from room to room in the nursery and to see so many tiny people being cared for and loved.  We've had several new volunteers come (yes, I'm considered one of the more "experienced" volunteers with three whole weeks under my belt!), and it's true what they say about teaching being a great way to learn.  I feel like, because I've had to teach new people what to do, I truly realize how much I know about what I'm doing here.  
 
Because life has settled into a bit of a routine from day-to-day, I thought I'd give you a picture of what my day looks like.  This is going to be rather long, so if you're just looking for a concise update, feel free to skip the end.  I keep getting questions from some people about what I do all day, so this is for you all.  I'll be updating again tomorrow with some stories about some of the babies, and also about the hospital trip that I'm taking tomorrow.  I sincerely hope that this finds you well, and don't forget to email me!  I can't always check the comments on my blog, so if you want me to see what you're saying to me, send it in an email!  Love you all, and missing you, too!
 
 
First, I'll give you a picture of how things are divided and what they look like.  The babies are divided by age and developmental level into different nurseries.  The prem babies and newborns are in the Nest, which is a small room lined with bassinets.  It's always warm and cozy, and is probably the most peaceful place on the whole farm.  There are currently 11 nest babies.  The main nursery has the 3-6 month old babies who are still receiving bottles every four hours, called Fledgies, and is also shared with the Grubs, who are the babies that are beginning to eat solids.  They range in age from 6 to 15 months.  The main nursery has two sleeping areas, one for the Fledgies and one for the Grubs, and also a large, open playroom.  There are 6 Fledgies and 12 Grubs right now.  The older toddlers, called the Creepies, have their own bedroom and a separate playroom.  There are 7 Creepies who are between 15 months to our oldest, who is almost 4.  Because there is such a big age range, we're about to restructure the groups and create one for the toddlers between 12 and 24 months.
 
I'm usually scheduled to start my day at 6am.  I generally roll out of bed, throw on jeans and a t-shirt, and head into the nursery.  It's still chilly in the mornings and the evenings, so I usually wear a sweatshirt for the walk to the nursery.  I'm still spending most of my time with the Fledgies and Grubs, which is great because they're my favorite group.  There is usually one person assigned to Fledgies, another to the Grubs, and another to as a "flier," who assists whoever needs help at the time.  The babies are just starting to wake up around the time I get there in the morning, so as they wake up, they get their "nappies" changed and get a morning bottle.  If there is time, we'll start giving baths before breakfast, which is around 8.  Mealtimes tend to be hectic with the Grubs, and usually requires the assistance of anyone within earshot.  The babies are all hungry, and each baby has a pretty specific diet depending on how old they are, how well they eat, and their own personal dietary needs (we have a few who are allergic to dairy so they get soymilk, etc.).  The babies are lined up in seats on the floor, and each volunteer tries to feed as many as they can at one time.  It's pretty funny, really, but can also be really stressful with all of the noise!  After breakfast, the Grubs need to be bathed.  We try to get baths done by snacktime, which is around 10, and is immediately followed by naptime.  This gives us around an hour and a half to get 12 babies bathed in one of the 2 tubs that we have.  If we get done early, then we start on Fledgie baths, although they can be bathed during the Grubs naptime.  During naptime, the kitchen staff provides us with tea (a fabulous tradition, which I intend to bring home with me!), so I might have time to grab a quick cup of tea and a snack before I straighten the nursery up in preparation for lunchtime.  At this point, I might be rotated around to spend an hour or two in the Nest, which simply entails feeding tiny babies every 3 hours, changing nappies, and giving baths.  I find the Nest to be the least stressful of the nurseries, so it's somtimes a nice break to be scheduled in the Nest!  Then I usually head back to the main nursery and the Fledgies and Grubs.  They all get their nappies changed after their nap, and then lunchtime is around 12:30.  Once again, mealtime is crazy and chaotic, but it usually calms down significantly for the afternoon.  There's another naptime around 2, and then they wake up for afternoon tea around 3:30.  The older babies actually drink tea!  We brew weak Rooibis tea, lightly sweetened, and they LOVE it.  It cracks me up!  I might get sent back to the Nest for a few hours in the afternoon, or rarely to the Creepies, where the main job is just to play with the kids.  With the Creepies, we often take them outside to play on the playground or go on a walk.  But usually, I just say with my Fledgies and Grubs.  We have some freetime in the afternoon, which is great for working with individual babies on sitting up or crawling or reaching for toys.  It's probably my favorite time of day, because we get out a bunch of mats to put the babies on, and have time to just play with them.  It's good for us and it's good for the babies!  Dinner is aroun 5, and the 5 o'clock hour has been dubbed "happy hour" here, because it's just plain loud and chaotic.  The Grubs all scream because they're hungry and we can't feed them fast enough, and the Fledgies all scream because it's loud.  It's organized chaos, and everyone is ready for bed when it's done!  We change them all into PJs, give them their evening bottles, and put them all in bed around 7.  Believe it or not, that's always a very quiet time of the night-they all just lay down and go to sleep!  And then I'd be off the schedule around 7.  During the day, we usually get a one or two hour break, so in all, we're currently working 11 hour days.  Mealtimes for adults are rather unformal.  We usually just grab a plate when the breakfast/lunch/dinner bell rings and bring it back to the nursery to eat when we have a spare second.  At the end of the day, we all head back to our cottages and occasionally watch a movie or gather around a bonfire, but we're usually so tired that we just go to bed!  Okay, I think that's about all for this update.  Once again, I'll be updating again tomorrow, so check back!

Saturday, September 22, 2007

Send me a note...

Hey there!  Just a quick note to ask you all to send me a quick email if you have a chance.  I can't access my email address book, so I don't have any email addresses to send to.  Love you!
Amanda 

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Hello everyone!  First of all, I just want to thank all of you who wrote me emails yesterday.  They were all so kind, and it was awesome to hear from you.  I was in desperate need of some encouragement, so thanks a lot. 
Yesterday was a really interesting day here, so I think I'll tell you about that.  I have just moved from dayshift to nightshift for a week.  I started by worked from 6 am to 10am on Tuesday, getting the Grubs up and ready and fed their breakfast.  I want you to imagine that you are in a room with 12 hungry, fussy infants and young toddlers who all want to be fed immediately, and then imagine that there are two of you to feed them all.  Yeah-meal times are really hectic!  They'll all be crying at once, and then they start the younger babies crying-you wouldn't believe the noise!  Anyways.  I got off at 10 so that I could sleep and prepare for my night on nightshift.  Of course, having just slept for the night, I only managed to get about a two hour nap in.  Nightshift begins at 7 pm, and as I was heading in for nightshift, I was asked if I would possibly be able to take one of the babies to the hospital to get a CT scan done.  3 kiddos had to go to the hospital for testing, and they had no one to take them without pulling people off dayshift, and as I've mentioned, we're already short staffed.  So at 6 am, after just getting off nightshift, Eric, who has been here for a year or so, Penny, who also just got here, and I loaded up the 3 kids and left.  Eric dropped me off at Jo'berg General, while he and Penny headed to another hospital, and I was on my own with a 3 week old preemie baby to find the CT scan.  The hospital is HUGE!!!!!!!!!!!  I found my way to CT fairly easily, although I attracted quite a lot of attention.  Some of you probably remember that before I left, I was wondering what it would feel like to be a part of the minority.  I felt so conspicuous,  especially carrying a tiny black baby!  Everyone was really nice, but I got so many comments on how tiny she was, and many people asked me whose baby she was.  It was a fascinating experience!  I think she's officially my favorite baby here, just because we spent to much time together yesterday!  The scan went well, I waited a few hours for the results, and then went to wait out front for my ride back to the farm.  Brendan arrived around 12, and I got back just before 1.  Although there were several times when I felt lost and confused and completely out of my element, I'm really glad I went.  After I finished, I was thinking about how nice it was to feel independent and capable!  At home I take those thins for granted, but here it's nice to be reminded.  Moving on.   Needless to say, I didn't get much sleep yesterday, and was exhausted for nightshift last night!  I spent most of the night in the nest with the tiny newborns and preemie babies.  It was such a neat experience!  They're all so tiny and sweet!  I'll have to send you some pictures of just how small and cute these babies are! 
I'm going to end there for now.  I'm supposed to be sleeping, but I'm not having much luck with that.  Love you all, and miss you terribly!
 
Amanda

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

I'm back in contact!

Hey everyone!  I wasn't gettin any of the emails that were being sent to me, but I appreciate that you tried!  The problem is all sorted out now, so feel free to (in fact, PLEASE!) email me now!  The address is, once again, amanda@tlc.org.za.  I'm going to post another update tomorrow about my goings on, so be sure to check back!  Love you all and miss you!
Amanda

Monday, September 17, 2007

correction

Hey-so I was wrong about my email address.  It's amanda@tlc.org.za.  That last part's pretty important or it won't get to me.  Sorry!

I'm here!!!!

Hello all!  Yes, I made it safely, and I've been here for over a week now.  My email account just got up and running, so I'm finally back in touch.  If you'd like to email me, my address is amanda@tlc.org
I'd like to give you a little picture of what I've been up to.  I jumped right into work when I arrived, so I really haven't seen much of South Africa yet, but here's what I've been doing;
Right now, TLC has 36 babies and toddlers.  There are 8 creepy crawlies, which are the kids between about 18 months and 4, 18 fledgies and grubs, which are babies (developmentally) between 2-4 months (fledgies) and 5-15 months (grubs), and the rest of them are in the nest, which is for newborns and premature babies. I've spent nearly all of my time with the fledgies and the grubs.  We're so short on volunteers that quite often there are two of us taking care of all 18 babies, which includes bathing them all once a day, feeding the little ones every four hours, and the big ones their meals and bottles, changing "nappies" (diapers) what feels like a million times a day, and all of the other miscelaneous things that go into taking care of babies...not to mention trying to keep the mobile ones from stepping on the little ones!  I usually work from about 6 am, when they start waking up, till 7 or 8 pm when they all go to bed.  Yeah, they're long days and I'm really tired!  It took me a couple of days to get adjusted to the time change (I would wake up in the middle of the night absolutely unable to fall asleep even though I was exhausted.), so I'm sure that's part of the reason I'm so tired.
The babies are adorable!  I know all of the creepies, grubs and fledgies by name now.  I havn't worked in the nest yet, but I'm in there for two hours later today.  They're all just so sweet and cute and wonderful, although I don't get to spend nearly as much time as I had thought cuddling with them-there is simply just too much to be done!  Hopefully I can get some pictures up sometime soon-then you can see for yourself how cute they are!
I've been doing pretty well.  I havn't gotten sick, which they say is pretty good for my first week here.  I am, on the other hand, pretty darned homesick, so if you are the praying type, I'd appreciate some prayers for that.  People keep telling me that it gets better after the first month, but right now, a year sounds like a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time! 
I miss you all, I miss home, and I think of you guys all the time.  I hope and pray that you are well. 
Please, feel free to email me!  I'd love to hear from home!
Amanda

Sunday, September 9, 2007

On Being a Hobbit

You all recall that my mom was telling me to "be like a turtle," right?
Well, now my dad has taken to calling me a hobbit. No, they aren't
encouraging me to have an identity crisis, we're just a creative family.
I'm assuming that most of you are familiar with J.R.R. Tolkein's Lord of the
Rings series, so you know what I'm talking about. Hobbits live in the
Shire. They love the Shire. They're homebodies who don't see the point of
leaving the land that they love. But every now and then, a hobbit will find
within himself the longing to go on an adventure. You all remember Bilbo
and Frodo Baggins, don't you? Quite the adventures they went on! Slaying
dragons and saving the world from evil. I feel a kind of affinity for
Hobbits, probably because they're small, tiny little people, and I feel a
kinship with them. : ) (Although, as my dad would say, I don't have hairy
feet.) So I'm a hobbit setting off on an adventure. And I love the Shire,
and when it's time for my adventure to end, I will be so happy to return to
my home.
The hardest part of being a hobbit setting off on an adventure is that you
actually have to leave home. Yeah, it seems obvious, and one would think
that I would have thought of this before now. And I did, but theory is far
different from reality, and the reality of leaving…well, it sucked.
I've been sitting here for an hour trying to come up with all of the right
words, but they're just not coming to me, so I think I'm just going to end
by saying that I love you all, miss you all, and appreciate your support.
The next update will be from South Africa!
Hobbit Out

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